I am so excited to share with you Karen Ehman’s new book, Let.It.Go! She wrote this book with me in mind!
Foreword by Candace Cameron Bure
Women are wired to control. We make sure the house is clean, the meals
prepared, the children are dressed, and everyone gets to where they’re going on
time. But sometimes our strength of being conscientious can morph into the
weakness of being a slight—or all out—control freak! This humorous, yet
spiritually practical book will help you to:
Karen’s new book will empower you to:
• Take control of your schedule yet welcome interruptions from God
• Draw the line between mothering and micromanaging
• Influence your husband instead of manipulating him
• Learn to control your emotions when you can’t control the circumstances
• Stop pursuing the appearance of perfection and start pursuing the person
of God
*A companion 6 week dvd and Bible study guide is also available.
An interview with Karen about this new project:
Karen, tell us a little about why you wrote this book. Are you a control
freak?
Ummm….yeah! What woman isn’t about at least some aspect of life? We
have so many areas that we must be in charge of—at home, at work, in the
church and community. What happens is that we let our strengths of multitasking and getting jobs done morph into a weakness of being controlling.
So, are you saying controlling can actually be needed at times?
Of course we must control our homes and schedules and such. We should
work with diligence and excellence. What we have to be careful of is going
from being conscientious to being controlling. Being conscientious is doing a
job well. Being controlling is trying to manipulate the outcome. There is a
difference and we know deep down inside when we’ve crossed that line. This
book helps women determine how to control what they should, trust God with
what they can’t, and most importantly, how to decide which one is which!
What are some areas you cover in the book where women try to run the
show?
We try to be in control of our homes, our schedules, our kids, our husbands,
our circumstances, others’ opinions of us…..the list is long!
So what is at the root of why we women control?
We control because we don’t trust God. We think we know better than Him
just what is best for us. It is as old as the garden of Eden. Well, guess what?
God called and He’d like his job back!!
The holidays are coming up. Do they bring out the control freak
tendencies in women?
Oh yes….in fact. One whole chapter of the book is about my friend Lisa
Whelchel daring me five years ago to not make any decisions for a whole
three weeks RIGHT AT THE HOLIDAYS!! It was painful. And actually, in the
end, wonderful. I think this topic is so important that I’ve written a free five day
resource for women dealing with the holidays called From Chaos to Calm:
The LET. IT. GO. Christmas Challenge.
You can sign up for it FREE here.!
What is your prayer for the woman who reads your book?
I pray that through learning to relinquish control and let go of the reins, she
will be able to grab hold of her faith. That her relationship with God will
strengthen as she learns to stop trying to fix outcomes and get her own way
but seeks His perfect will for her life—and the lives of her loved ones—
instead.
Buy It
You can purchase Let.It.Go as Christmas gifts for 9.98. It’s perfect gift that will bless the special women in your life.
Win It
Karen wants to give away 2 Blessed Beyond a Doubt readers a copy of her new book, Let.It.Go. I will be picking a random winner on Wednesday, 21 at 11:59a. Winner will be contacted via email and must respond within 48 hours.
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I’d have to say yes, I do struggle with control. I’d love to read this book!
I have always struggled with control. God has used affliction to teach me. I need all the reminders I can get and would love to read this book!
Oh my goodness, yes! I would love to glean some wisdom from this book 🙂
I would love to win this book.
Sounds like a must read for me!
I need this book!
Yes I do!
I struggle with control. Oh mercy! Good thing our Lord is gracious!
I just “hopped” over here from another blog and found this post! Looks like a book I could use… =)
I struggle on a daily basis with Control. I have sought counseling on this issue in the past, but my past is making me a controlling person. I need help to overcome this!
Yes! I definitely struggle with letting things go and wanting to control various areas of life!!
This book sounds like just what I need. Over the past year or so, I have been slowly coming to terms with how controlling I am, but I have had a hard time figuring out how to stop being that way!
Sounds like an awesome read! Would love to win this book 🙂
Sounds likes great book and I would love the whole set!
Blessings to you and I struggle with daily step of stress (self-inflicted). Trying to raise girls and homeschool on top of outings can get stressful. I would love to learn to say no, make our moments count and stop letting little things get me going. This would help set good example for my girls
Thanks for the chance to win.
A book that I need!
Would love this book! Especially this time of year! 🙂
A book to keep me humble!
Thank you for a chance to win!
Thank you for the great giveaway
Would love to read this book!
Sounds like you wrote this for me! 🙂 Thank you.
Sounds like a great book 🙂
I’d love to win this, thanks for the opportunity!
Ive head such great things about this book already!
Whether I win or not, this is something I really think I need to read and plan on investing in.